FEATURE: Monogamy not the one and only option for love-seeking Tokyo writer

For Kinoko, love has never fitted neatly into a box.A genderqueer writer in their 40s living in Tokyo, Kinoko has on occasion dated several people at once -- not using deception, but with honesty and mutual consent.The practice of "loving many," as Kinoko does, is labeled polyamory."When you develop feelings for more than one person," says Kinoko (a pseudonym), "I want people to know there's another option -- you don't have to choose between giving up (on the first relationship) or being unfaithful."Kinoko, who identifies as genderqueer -- meaning they do not see themselves strictly as male…READ FULL ARTICLE